These are the comments that caused a national firestorm and the
calls from his colleagues – on both sides of the aisle – and his
constituents for Mr. Santorum to step down from his leadership
position. It’s also the paragraph that Mr. Santorum said was unfairly
altered by AP when they quoted him in the transcript as saying “And if
the Supreme Court says that you have the right to consensual [gay] sex
within your home, then you have the right to bigamy, you have the right
to polygamy, you have the right to incest, you have the right to
adultery. You have the right to anything.” Santorum claimed the
insertion of “[gay]” misrepresented his statement. It did not as any
reader can clearly see from
the fuller context.
Santorum doesn’t believe in the right to privacy. He believes
self-righteous voyeurs such as himself should have the right to dictate
what consenting adults do behind closed bedroom doors. He also seems
totally ignorant of the fact that sodomy – “anal or oral copulation
with a member of the same or opposite sex” – is practiced by many
heterosexuals, including married Christian couples.
The former senator went even further over the edge by suggesting such
intensely intimate acts between consenting (or married) adults in the
privacy of their home “undermine the basic tenets of our society and
the family.” How, Mr. Santorum?
HOW?
You love to bluster, but offer no explanations and more importantly no
empirical evidence to support your outlandish claims, such as those you
made on the floor of the Senate just before the proposed Federal
Marriage Amendment to the U.S. Constitution went down in flames (along
with your political career): “the future of our country hangs in the
balance because the future of marriage hangs in the balance. Isn’t that
the ultimate homeland security – standing up and defending marriage?”
When the Elephant in the Room does offer “evidence,” it’s as fallacious
and disingenuous as his claims and always coupled with the same snide,
inappropriate comments that cost him his Senate seat:
you might ask: Don’t we have more to worry about than some court
redefining marriage? After all, gas prices are soaring, health-care
costs are rising, and our nation is at war. Why should we care what a
few activist judges in California say?
Let’s put aside the tired argument that the people should have a say in
the laws of their government. That is so 18th-century white-male
drivel. Thank goodness we have unaccountable judicial elites to make
decisions for us bigots.
Look at Norway. It began allowing same-sex marriage in the 1990s. In
just the last decade, its heterosexual-marriage rates have nose-dived
and its out-of-wedlock birthrate skyrocketed to 80 percent for
firstborn children. Too bad for those kids who probably won’t have a
dad around, but we can’t let the welfare of children stand in the way
of social affirmation, can we?
Take it paragraph by paragraph.
“Don’t we have more to worry about than” gay couples committing their
lives to each other? To be sure there are “larger” issues that affect
more people, but as Martin Luther King, Jr. wrote in his
Letter from Birmingham Jail, “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”
The California Supreme Court did not “redefine marriage.” They ruled
that injustice – discrimination – is not acceptable under the state’s
constitution. As California Supreme Court Chief Justice Ronald M.
George, who was appointed to the court by Ronald Reagan, wrote “in view
of the substance and significance of the fundamental constitutional
right to form a family relationship … the California Constitution
properly must be interpreted to guarantee this basic civil right to all
Californians, whether gay or heterosexual, and to same-sex couples as
well as to opposite-sex couples.”
Isn’t it time for Santorum and the Christianist Right to put away the
hackneyed “activist judges” rhetoric? When courts render rulings they
like, they praise the judicial system. When courts render rulings they
don’t like, they scream “activist judges.” Santorum made a big deal
about the epithets he says were hurled at him. Perhaps he should stop
hurling them at others.
The Elephant opined “Let’s put aside the tired argument that the people
should have a say in the laws of their government. … Thank goodness we
have unaccountable judicial elites to make decisions for us bigots.”
The California Supreme Court noted in
its ruling
the case of Proposition 14. It was passed by the voters in 1964 and
allowed real estate agents and landlords in California to reject home
buyers or tenants as they saw fit, even if their decision was based on
racial discrimination. The law was struck down in 1967.
California’s Proposition 14 and other discriminatory measures supported by the
vox populi
are just a snapshot in time, but times change. The year after the U.S.
Supreme Court struck down all laws criminalizing interracial marriage
(Loving v. Virginia), a 1968 Gallup poll showed 72 percent of Americans
polled opposed the legalization of such unions. Today, only the KKK and
other fanatics would argue against the legitimacy of interracial
marriage.
Proposition 22 – that restricted marriage in California to one man and
one woman – was passed by 61.4 percent of the voters in 2000. It was
the pet project of the Christianist Right who, at the time, were riding
high on the Bush-Rove wave that in the following years would divide the
country with its
modus operandi of encouraging religion-based hate and prejudice. As Marc Dunkelman pointed out in a 2007
Philadelphia Inquirer
editorial, “Rove set out to segment the electorate, determine which
constituencies would support the president, maximize their turnout, and
damn the rest to the political hinterlands.”
Rove is “gone.” Bush
tops “the list when American voters pick the worst U.S. President in the last 61 years.”
And since 2000, attitudes toward gay people and their right to civil
equality have changed significantly. More and more people – including
a considerable number of evangelical Christians
– have grown weary of Christiantist leaders’ vituperative attacks on
gay and lesbian Americans and their obsessive ranting about gay
marriage, while ignoring virtually all other social concerns.
Times have changed. Over ninety percent of Fortune 500 companies now
have anti-discrimination policies that protect gays. More and more
companies, colleges and universities, states and municipalities are
offering same-sex domestic partner benefits,
despite challenges and litigation from the Christianist Right’s legal minions.
Aside from the fact that equality is just good business, America is
awaking-up from the Bush-Rove nightmare and realizing same-sex civil
marriages are a threat to no one (except those who need someone to
marginalize) and that such unions reaffirm the value of the marriage
commitment.
The Los Angeles Times conducted a readers’ poll after the
state’s Supreme Court’s decision. The question posed was “Did the
California Supreme Court make the correct decision?” The results as of
May 18, 2008 reflect the changing times and attitudes. Of the 35,257
respondents 75.8 percent said “yes,” while only 24.2 percent said “no.”
On May 23, 2008 the
LA Times released another snapshot of the
vox populi:
a poll
“of 834 Californians, 705 of them registered voters, [and] found that
54 percent of the voters surveyed backed a gay marriage ban proposed
for the November ballot and 35 percent opposed it.”
Christianist and social conservative groups were quick to proclaim
“Majority of Californians favor gay marriage ban marriage,” but they
didn’t note that 54 percent is much less than the 61.4 percent that
voted for Proposition 22 in 2000. Perhaps many Californians came to the
same conclusion that
Washington Post columnist
E. J. Dionne did:
I am one of the millions of Americans whose mind has changed on this
issue [same-sex marriage]. Like many of my fellow citizens, I was
sympathetic to granting gay couples the rights of married people, but
balked at applying the word “marriage” to their unions.
“That word and the idea behind it,” I wrote 13 years ago, “carry
philosophical and theological meanings that are getting increasingly
muddled and could become more so if it were applied even more broadly.”
Like a lot of people, I decided I was wrong. What moved me were the
conservative arguments for gay marriage put forward by the writers
Jonathan Rauch, Andrew Sullivan and New York Times columnist David
Brooks.
They see society as having a powerful interest in building respect for
long-term commitment and fidelity in sexual relationships and that gay
marriage underscores how important commitment is.
Prohibiting members of one part of our population from making a public
and legal commitment to each other does not strengthen marriage; it
weakens it.
The Christianist headline was misleading in another way, as the
LA Times noted:
More than half of Californians said gay relationships were not morally
wrong, that they would not degrade heterosexual marriages and that all
that mattered was that a relationship be loving and committed,
regardless of gender.
Overall, the proportion of Californians who back either gay marriage or
civil unions for same-sex couples has remained fairly constant over the
years. But the generational schism is pronounced. Those under 45 were
less likely to favor a constitutional amendment than their elders and
were more supportive of the court's decision to overturn the state's
current ban on gay marriage. They also disagreed more strongly than
their elders with the notion that gay relationships threatened
traditional marriage.
The results of the survey set up an intriguing question for the fall
campaign: Will the younger, more live-and-let-live voters mobilized by
likely Democratic nominee Barack Obama doom the gay marriage ban? Or
will conservatives drawn to the polls by the amendment boost the odds
for the presumptive Republican nominee, John McCain?
Either way, the poll suggests the outcome of the proposed amendment is
far from certain … because ballot measures on controversial topics
often lose support during the course of a campaign, strategists
typically want to start out well above the 50% support level.
“Although the amendment to reinstate the ban on same-sex marriage is
winning by a small majority, this may not bode well for the measure,”
said Times Poll Director Susan Pinkus.
The future belongs to the young, and America’s youth have had enough of dark, backward-looking. Apparently so have others:
Poll: Majority of California Voters Approve of Same-Sex Marriage
May 30, 2008
A new poll released Wednesday shows that for the first time in three
decades registered California voters approve of allowing same-sex
couples to marry – by a margin of 51% to 42% – a flip from the last
poll taken in 2006, when voters disapproved of gay marriage 50% to 44%.
The nonpartisan California Field Poll of 1,052 registered voters,
conducted May 17–26, with a 3.2% margin of error, also found voters
were leery of the proposed ballot initiative that would amend the state
constitution to define marriage as only between a man and a woman, with
54% opposing the measure and 40% favoring it.
The electorate is sharply divided in opinion by age, gender, religion,
and political ideology. Californians aged 18–29 favor same-sex marriage
by more than a 2-to-1 margin (68% to 25%), and those 30–39 also
strongly support marriage (58% to 34%), while voters 65 and older
disapprove of extending marriage rights by an equally strong margin,
55% to 36%.
Men and women differ on the issue, with men about evenly divided, while
women favor marriage equality by a margin of 14 percentage points.
It’s here, at this point in the battle over the M-word that
the words of
Jeffrey Amestoy, former chief justice of the Vermont Supreme Court and
the author of that court’s 1999 decision that led to the nation’s first
civil-union statute, should be heard loud and clear:
One need not ascribe to the majority’s view that the difference in
terminology is constitutionally untenable to recognize that words
matter. It is surely understandable why same-sex couples who are
constitutionally entitled to all the rights and benefits of marriage do
not wish to have their license bear a different designation. One can
imagine, for example, the resistance of heterosexual couples to a
licensing scheme that reserved the word “marriage” for first marriages,
and compelled those who remarried to seek a “remarriage” license.
It is, in fact, precisely the [California] chief justice’s sensitivity
to words that prompts him to indirectly suggest to the California
legislature how to moderate the aftershock. He suggests that lawmakers
could assign a name other than marriage as the official designation of
the formal family arrangements for all couples, “perhaps in order to
emphasize and clarify that this civil institution is distinct from the
religious institution of marriage....”
That invitation, coupled with the 30-day delay before the decision is
effective, provides the California legislature with an unparalleled
opportunity to preserve the fundamental fairness of the court’s
decision. An official designation of the constitutionally protected and
legislatively enacted right to the benefits and protections for all
couples as “marriage unions” would assuredly be constitutional under
the majority’s rationale.
Some, of course, would prefer to refight the political war over the
marriage word. It is doubtful that new insights will be gained from
another protracted battle between pro- and anti-gay marriage activists.
“Suppose you go to war,” said Abraham Lincoln, “you cannot fight
always; and when, after much loss on both sides, and no gain on either,
you cease fighting, the identical old questions ... are again upon you.”
But back to Mr. Santorum’s comments. Looking into his dark, clouded,
cracked crystal ball, the Elephant in the Room urged readers to “Look
at Norway. It began allowing same-sex marriage in the 1990s. In just
the last decade, its heterosexual-marriage rates have nose-dived…”
Classic Santorum:
deliberate misrepresentation,
deliberately misleading. What the former senator is suggesting is that there is a direct, one-to-one
causal relationship
between allowing same-sex marriage and the decline of heterosexual
marriages in Norway. Anyone who has had even one course in sociology
would understand the deception. Aside from the cultural differences,
there are myriad factors that affect social trends. To suggest there is
just one is pure nonsense, but the type of nonsense Santorum shills,
constantly, as he did at the end of his commentary when he claimed that
unless legislators pass laws denying gay Americans the right to marry
“they will contribute to the end of marriage, a decline of the family,
more children being raised without dads, and a deep erosion of our
freedom of religion.”
Do you think Santorum ever heard of “Massachusetts” where heterosexual
marriage has been unaffected, more families are secure, and religious
freedom remains intact? He did, however, mention the latter, but again
misrepresented the facts: “In Massachusetts, the first
same-sex-marriage state, Catholic Charities, one of the state’s largest
adoption agencies, was forced out of business because it refused to
arrange adoptions for same-sex couples.”
Catholic Charities in Massachusetts – like those in San Francisco –
chose to shut down, and many of the organizations’ executives
resigned
because of the uncharitable, dogma-based decision issued by those who
would rather leave children parentless than place them in loving homes.
The architects and enforcers of that dogmatic decision in Massachusetts
were none other than
the bishops of the state’s four archdioceses.
The church hierarchy… the same hierarchy that covered-up decades of
child abuse and pedophilia by Catholic priests in Massachusetts and
nationwide.
In claiming the California ruling and a failure to embed religion-based
discrimination into civil law would “contribute to the end of marriage,
a decline of the family” Santorum sounded like another
Christianist, Don Wildmon and his American Family Association, an organization
dedicated to hurting gay and lesbian families. In one of his patented hysterical
Action Alerts, Wildmon claimed the California ruling would lead to:
— Legalization of polygamous and other aberrant unions as “marriages”
— Legalization of marriage between an adult parent and adult child
— Legalization of group marriage
— Overturn all the marriage laws in the other 49 state [sic]
Apparently “reverend” Wildmon is unaware that the Bible he claims to be THE final word on marriage (and everything else)
clearly
condones and sanctions – one might say even promotes – polygamy, as
well as selling one’s daughter into slavery and stoning non-virgin
brides.
The rest of Wildmon’s wild-eyed claims are as nonsensical as
Santorum’s, and echo the former senator’s infamous April 2003
statements. How same-sex marriage would lead inexorably to incest –
“legalization of marriage between an adult parent and adult child” –
remains a twisted notion in the “minds” of those who rely on fear and
scare tactics. But then again, fear and scare tactics are the tools of
those who use religion as a weapon.
The words of Benedict de Spinoza come to mind every time I read one of
Wildmon’s fanatical rants against gay Americans and their families or
he chirps about how the Christian
Alliance Defense Fund is suing to block or negate benefits and/or social recognition these families receive:
I have often wondered, that persons who make a boast of professing the
Christian religion, namely, love, joy, peace, temperance, and charity
to all men, should quarrel with such rancorous animosity, and display
daily towards one another such bitter hatred, that this, rather than
the virtues they claim, is the readiest criterion of their faith.
More rancorous bombast from the Elephant in the Room included this
question and bizarre reasoning: “What about the constitutional right to
equal protection under the law? Marriage is not an inalienable right;
it is a privilege, a license granted by government conferring certain
governmental benefits.”
The Declaration of Independence states, “We hold these truths to be
self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by
their Creator with certain inalienable Rights, that among these are
Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” The Constitution expands
upon those principles. In its Loving v. Virginia decision the U.S.
Supreme Court ruled that marriage is “one of the basic rights of man”
and the freedom to marry is “essential to the orderly pursuit of
happiness.” But “inalienable rights” – especially justice and happiness
– for all of “We the People” seem anathema to Mr. Santorum.
The former Pennsylvania senator was, however, partially correct about
one thing: marriage rights begin with “a license granted by
government.” Marriage is a
secular institution and as such equal protection under the law should indeed apply, which is
exactly
what the California Supreme Court said in its ruling. Jaundiced
religion, discrimination and bigotry have no place in a state-regulated
institution or in civil law.
One final note. Actually it’s a question for the former Pennsylvania senator:
Did you ever pay back the $100,000, Mr. Santorum? From the
Pittsburgh Tribune-Review, November 19, 2004:
U.S. Sen. Rick Santorum should reimburse $100,000 to the Penn Hills
School District [in Pennsylvania] for taxpayer money used since 2001 to
cover online charter school tuition for his children, four school board
members said Thursday. …
“He’s admitted he’s not a resident. I’m going to put up a motion for
him to pay back the entire amount,” said Penn Hills School Board member
Erin Vecchio…
She plans to call on the board during its regular meeting Dec. 7 [2004]
to urge Santorum to return the tuition money to the district. …
Penn Hills Superintendent Patricia Gennari said she phoned the senator
Wednesday afternoon to arrange for the district to query him about his
residency. Santorum issued a statement late that night saying he had
decided to pull his children from the online school and home-school
them instead after being told by district officials that “only children
who live in a community on a full-time basis” are eligible for the
tuition money. …