As for those who opposed giving gay and lesbian American equal rights
and “the respect, benefits, obligations and protections that come with
marriage,” they expressed their outrage and mouthed the same old banal
platitudes. James Dobson, founder and chairman of Focus on the Family –
and
self-appointed spokesman for God and His right-hand profiteer – was “
outraged.” The day after the California decision, Jimmy D’s Focus on the Family website was promoting
a book
that claimed recognizing marriage equality was going to “deconstruct
humanity.” How self-revealing, since by definition bigots try to
deconstruct society and humanity.
Rabid homophobe and chairman of the Tradition Values Coalition, discredited “
Lucky Louie” Sheldon screeched “ultimate tyranny of judicial activism” as he hysterically hyperventilated, yet again, in “
CALIFORNIA SUPREME COURT JUSTICES DECLARE OPEN SEASON ON MARRIAGE.”
Matt Barber, policy director of cultural issues for Concerned Women for America, was widely quoted:
So-called “same-sex” marriage is counterfeit marriage. Marriage is, and
has always been, between a man and a woman. We know that it’s in the
best interest of children to be raised with a mother and a father. To
use children as guinea pigs in radical San Francisco-style social
experimentation is deplorable. … This decision will help fuel a
California marriage amendment and re-ignite debate over a federal
amendment which would protect marriage as between one man and one woman.
“Marriage is, and has always been, between a man and a woman.” Sorry
Matt. That Bible you claim to be THE final word on marriage (and
everything else)
clearly
condones and sanctions – one might say even promotes – polygamy, as
well as selling one’s daughter into slavery and stoning non-virgin
brides.
What’s “counterfeit” – and contrary to Christian philosophy – are
Christianist theofascists such “Televangelist John Hagee [who] in a
recently aired sermon, outlined what he meant by the term ‘counterfeit
Christians’: those who take public policy positions he disagrees with,
on issues from abortion and gay marriage to welfare.
Watch…”
Concerned Women for America, like Dobson’s Focus on the Family and
Sheldon’s traditional values Coalition all are in lock-step with Hagee
on abortion and gay marriage.
Barber’s using children to make a case he can’t otherwise support
except by reference to selected passages in the Bible – while ignoring
others – aside from being deceitful and hypocritical, begs the
question. The issue at hand is the legal right for two people to enter
into the state-sanctioned, civil institution called marriage. Children
are, to be sure, a related issue, but not the issue at hand.
Nevertheless, it’s a standard diverting tactic Christianists use, as
was well illustrated by Bruce Fein, a long time opponent to civil
equality for gay and lesbian Americans, in his 1990 article
Reserve Marriage for Heterosexuals:
Authorizing the marriage of homosexuals, like sanctioning polygamy,
would be unenlightened social policy. The law should reserve the
celebration of marriage vows for monogamous male-female attachments to
further the goal of psychologically, emotionally and educationally
balanced offspring. … Experience confirms that child development is
skewed, scarred or retarded when either a father or mother is absent in
the household.
Since the heterosexual divorce rate is and has been for some time near
50%, according to Fein there must be a lot of “skewed, scarred or
retarded” kids out there. Either that, or he’s a “skewed, scarred or
retarded” bigot making outlandish statements to divert attention from
the real issue: the equality of all Americans. As the U.S. Supreme
Court said in its Loving v. Virginia decision (that struck down all
laws ahainst interracial marriage) and as the California Supreme Court
reaffirmed in its recent decision: marriage is “one of the basic rights
of man,” and the freedom to marry is “essential to the orderly pursuit
of happiness.” In the words of California Supreme Court Chief Justice
Ronald M. George, who was appointed to the court by Ronald Reagan, “in
view of the substance and significance of the fundamental
constitutional right to form a family relationship … the California
Constitution properly must be interpreted to guarantee this basic civil
right to all Californians, whether gay or heterosexual, and to same-sex
couples as well as to opposite-sex couples.”
On September 8, 2004 – during the height of the pre-election campaign
to “save traditional marriage” – the Barna Group, a Christian
marketing-research organization, issued a
report
titled “Born Again Christians Just As Likely to Divorce As Are
Non-Christians.” It documented that “among married born again
Christians, 35% have experienced a divorce. That figure is identical to
the outcome among married adults who are not born again: 35%.” Barna
also documented that “nearly one-quarter of the married ‘born agains’
(23%) get divorced two or more times.” No doubt more than a few of
those multiple divorces among born-again Christians reported by the
Barna Group involved
adultery.
If Barber and Fein want to divert attention from the civil rights issue
at hand by yammering about children’s best interests, perhaps they
should have a chat with all those Christians and born-againers who
divorce.
Moreover, contemporary research shows that children reared in same-sex household develop
no differently than children reared in opposite-sex households, despite the claims of Christianist leaders who have frequently been
caught misrepresenting legitimate research.
And then there’s the fact that the American Medical Association, the
American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Psychiatric Association
have all issued statements asserting that a parent’s sexual orientation
is irrelevant to his or her ability to raise a child.
But Barber was right about one thing: Christianist leaders will use the
California decision to launch new campaigns – and fund-raising drives –
to work against civil equality for all Americans. They’re already
renewing calls for a “marriage amendment” to the U.S. Constitution.
They already have a initiative prepared for the California ballot in
November, and are once again trotting out the hackneyed “judicial
tyranny” and claiming that the decision “ignored the will of the
people,” a reference to Proposition 22 passed in 2000 which banned
same-sex marriages. But as Howard Mintz pointed out in his
Mercury News article,
In this week’s ruling, the California Supreme Court rejected the
argument that it should follow the “will of the people” if a ballot
initiative violates a constitutional right.
The court cited the legal challenge over the 1964 housing law, a
constitutional amendment that allowed real estate agents and landlords
in California to reject home buyers or tenants of their choice, even if
it might be based on racial discrimination.
That law, Proposition 14, was struck down in 1967 by the state Supreme Court…
Proposition 14 and other discriminatory measures supported by the
vox populi
are just a snapshot in time, but times change. The year after the U.S.
Supreme Court struck down all laws criminalizing interracial marriage
(Loving v. Virginia), a 1968 Gallup poll showed 72 percent of Americans
polled opposed the legalization of such unions. Today, only the KKK and
other fanatics would argue against the legitimacy of interracial
marriage.
There are several other gaping holes in the “thinking” of those who continue to oppose civil equality.
True, Prop 22 was passed in 2000. It was the pet project of the
Christianist Right who, at the time, were riding high on the Bush-Rove
wave that in the following years would divide the country with its
modus operandi of encouraging religion-based hate and prejudice. As
Marc Dunkelman pointed out in a 2007
Philadelphia Inquirer
editorial, “Rove set out to segment the electorate, determine which
constituencies would support the president, maximize their turnout, and
damn the rest to the political hinterlands.”
Rove is “gone.” Bush
tops “the list when American voters pick the worst U.S. President in the last 61 years.”
And since 2000, attitudes toward gay people and their right to civil
equality have changed significantly. More and more people – including
a considerable number of evangelical Christians
– have grown weary of Christiantist leaders’ vituperative attacks on
gay and lesbian Americans and their obsessive ranting about gay
marriage, while ignoring virtually all other social concerns.
Times have changed. Over ninety percent of Fortune 500 companies now
have anti-discrimination policies that protect gays. More and more
companies, colleges and universities, states and municipalities are
offering same-sex domestic partner benefits,
despite challenges and litigation from the Christianist Right’s legal minions.
Aside from the fact that equality is just good business, America is
awaking-up from the Bush-Rove nightmare and realizing the truth of what
Martin Luther King, Jr. wrote in his Letter from Birmingham Jail:
“Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”
The Los Angeles Times conducted a poll after the state’s
Supreme Court’s decision. The question posed was “Did the California
Supreme Court make the correct decision?” The results as of May 18,
2008 reflect the changing times and attitudes. Of the 35,257
respondents 75.8 percent said “yes,” while only 24.2 percent said “no.”
Civil rights and civil equality are not popularity contests. The
California marriage decision was indeed a step forward. But those who
wish to embed their bigotry into civil law are ever vigilant. Let’s
hope fair-minded Americans are too.