The company making one of the biggest splashes on the
convention floor this year was Abbywinters.com, an Australian website
that bills itself as offering “real, passionate, unscripted” sexual
activity by “happy, healthy, regular girls in their normal
environments.” The company markets its female masturbation and
girl/girl videos as “an endless bounty of gasping sex, stunning beauty
and friendly faces” featuring women with “no makeup, no fake boobs, no
airbrushing.”
Call it the down-under girl-next-door market niche.
Of
course not all pornography consumers are interested in the softer-edged
material that Abbywinters.com sells, but it’s popular enough that the
company signed a distribution deal with Wicked Pictures, one of the top
production companies in the United States, according to an industry
insider working for Abbywinters.com. And based on the size of the
crowds that the Abbywinters.com booth was drawing, this market niche
appears to be holding its own.
At the booth, Abbywinters.com
“girls” (in porno-speak, there are no women; females of any age are
called girls) were chatting amiably with the fans (even playing chess
with some of them, to show that the girls are smart as well as sexy)
and being openly affectionate with each other. Instead of the
caricatured porn star look (impossibly high heels, over-the-top makeup,
and surgically enhanced bodies), these women really did look like
ordinary people.
In interviews with several of them, a familiar
story of empowerment emerged — we are comfortable with our bodies,
confident in our sexuality, proud to be taking control of how we are
represented, etc. We responded with questions that reflected our
feminist critique of pornography, which sparked interesting responses
regarding their feelings about their work and our assessment of the
industry. We asked the women to explain how the interests of women (or
men, for that matter) were advanced by selling images mostly used by
men as a masturbation facilitator. How did that improve the lot of
women in the world? Each of the conversations ended with an
agree-to-disagree parting, and we went off to other parts of the
convention.
The next day, when Jensen was back on the convention
floor and had just interviewed another female performer at the
Abbywinters.com booth, he was taken aside by the website’s photographer
(who wouldn’t give her name) and told that because the conversations of
the previous day had upset the women by bringing up a feminist
critique, they preferred that we stop talking to the women. “These are
smart women who’ve made a decision to perform, and we’d like you to
respect that,” she said. Jensen responded that it was precisely because
we respected these women and viewed them as intelligent adults capable
of making choices that we had engaged them in a serious, respectful way
during our interviews. What could be wrong with that?
The
photographer responded that it was just this kind of “intellectual
sparring” that they wanted to avoid. Why are questions that reflect a
critical viewpoint a threat, Jensen asked? Was it because this
convention was about making money, not talking about bigger issues
about power, especially with a feminist analysis behind the questions?
The photographer did not argue, acknowledging that the main market for
the website and films was men who used the images for “wanking.” But
she was firm in her position, and we agreed to not approach any of the
Abbywinters.com women/girls for additional interviews.
Free
speech, it appears, is all well and good when it protects the profits
of pornographers, but not when it includes a challenge to the claims
pornographers make.
Of course on private property, such as the
convention center, legal guarantees of free speech don’t apply; we
understood that we had to follow the rules of the people running the
show. But the rules those people imposed reveals much about the real
agenda, as did the behavior of the men watching. And, in the end, it is
really about what the men watching want.
A few hours after we
were banned from interviewing the girls it was show time at the
Abbywinters.com booth, with four female couples kissing and caressing
for the overwhelmingly male audience. In that moment the connection
between these Australian women and the rest of the AEE convention was
clear. Just as at the other companies on the floor, men with all
varieties of cameras and cell phones ringed the booth, vying for the
best angles to record images of women being sexual. The Abbywinters.com
women looked different from the porn-star caricature, but their
girl/girl action (the industry’s term for lesbian sex presented for a
male audience) didn’t look much different from the industry norm, and
the men who were watching behaved the same as other fans on the
convention floor.
That moment provides an important reminder:
Pornography, at its core, is a market transaction in which women’s
bodies and sexuality are offered to male consumers in the interests of
maximizing profit. Market niches vary, but the bottom line does not. In
the end, it’s about attracting the most “wankers” possible. Some of
those men who wank to these images like porn-star caricatures. Some
like the girl next door.
A man watching the Abbywinters.com sex
display said that he loved the site for a simple reason: “No fake tits
and more pubic hair.” A man who had just gotten a signed photo from a
performer at the Hustler booth said he loved porn women for a simple
reason: “They are like a fucking sculpture.” The slightly different
preferences were trivial; more important was the fact that both men had
bags full of pictures and DVDs that would mostly likely be wanking
material that evening.
The Abbywinters.com booth, with its more
female-friendly sexual activity, existed alongside the booths of other
pornographers selling an overtly woman-hating sex, and it’s easy to
tell the difference. Films that present ordinary women kissing are
different from films that offer exaggerated porn stars being penetrated
by three men at once. Films of women holding each other gently after
sex are different from films of men ejaculating on a woman’s face. We
have no doubt that the women performing for Abbywinters.com videos work
under better conditions than much of the rest of the industry. But in
the end, pornography is in the business of presenting women’s bodies to
men for masturbation.
The many different women who engage in sex
in front of a camera make that choice to be used in pornography under a
wide range of psychological, social and economic conditions. The
choices women make to reduce themselves to sexual objects for men’s
masturbation are complex, and we should be cautious about
generalizations and judgments.
The men who make up the vast
majority of the industry’s customers also make choices, about which
kind of objectified women are most sexually stimulating to them. Such
choices that men make are considerably simpler, and generalizations are
easier to make. Political judgments also are not only possible but
necessary — if we are to resist male supremacy, reject the
subordination of women in all its forms, and replace that corrosive
conception of gender and sex with a vision of human integrity and
community that can be the basis for a just and sustainable society.
Gail Dines, a sociology professor at Wheelock College in Boston, is
co-editor of Gender, Race and Class in Media. Robert Jensen, a
journalism professor at the University of Texas at Austin, is author of
Getting Off: Pornography and the End of Masculinity. Dines and Jensen,
with Rebecca Whisnant, have produced a PowerPoint slide show on
pornography that is available by writing stoppornculture@gmail.com. For
more information about Dines go here. For more information about Jensen go here.